sometimes i really wonder if i am expecting too much...many times it seem like things are so opposite from what i expect to be...however knowing the fact that its not going to happen as what i want it to be and yet still hoping miracle does work...tonight somehow out of no where, a "don't think so sensitive" topic start the ball rolls.its about man gives monthly allowance to wife despite wife is working too.not sure if i am still living in olden days or taking things for granted, i alwae thought it is a rightful way for man to give mthly allowance to his wife be it she is working or not...
however, i realised i am completely wrong with the statement.Here a man i known for so long, only till today then i find out that he totally disagree with my thought..he voiced that since both are working therefore should be sharing the expenses to keep things going...why should there be a must or right way that man should still give mthly allowance to wife ?? he also reason that if this is going to be,wife will be using the given allowances to spend,then she will save her earned $$.Does this mean man don't need to save up?(not applicable to rich man)...
Stunned is my 1st reaction followed by blackout & confused...mb cos working friend around me,hub still give some allowances to them baz...though somehow i do agreed with some of his say,still i don't really convinced with his speech....can't really tell where n why.....or coz i am still stand firm on my "old-fashioned" thinking..
he even suggest to hold a "survey" to find out the outcome but i think if this is going to be done,consequene is going to be hard to wrap up...
simply cos what is the point to find out the truth...so what if the truth stood up on me...the 1 thing i know is he is also standing firmly on his ground...
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